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SW London professional organiser, certified KonMari™ consultant and Local Mum Victoria Nicholson blogs for us on everything to do with home organisation

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What your clutter could be costing you


We often look at the things we own and put a certain value on them – whether it’s a sentimental value or a monetary one. This can drive us to hold on to things well past their use because of their perceived value. For example, you may have spent A LOT of your hard-earned cash on a designer dress then never wore it because the right occasion never came up or it just didn’t look right.  Do you really want it to remain hanging in your wardrobe as a grim reminder of the money you spent if you’re never going to wear it?  Have you considered that there is a cost to holding on to things?

Emotional cost
This could be your pre-children small size clothes, an expensive purchase that never quite worked or items reminding you of past relationships.  Whatever it is, do you really want it confronting you every day?  Your home should contain items that make you feel good.

The cost of real estate in London ranges from £562 – 1,491 per square foot depending on area.  With that it mind, how much free rent are you going to give to items that you don’t even need in your home?

This is mainly time spent looking for things.  Time is probably one of the most precious commodities there is  - did you know the average person spends a month out of every year looking for lost items?  How many times have you spent searching for a document, keys, the tights that don’t have a hole etc.  I’m sure you can think of a million better ways to spend your time.   

Putting things back in their designated place (and getting others to), having items accessible and easy to see is key.  

As well as looking for lost items, choice can cost you time.  Let me explain, if you have a wardrobe containing a smaller selection of clothes but you can see them all, access them all and know each item fits you well, looks good and doesn’t need repairing how much quicker would it be for you to get dressed to go out?  Think about how easy it is to get dressed when you’re on holiday and have just one suitcase of clothes.   

The more choice you have, the more decisions you have to make, and this can take up time.

How much energy do you spend moving things around to try and find something?  Or perhaps the items you need to use aren’t where you need to use them?  

When it comes to cleaning your home, think how much easier and quicker it is with clear surfaces and nothing on the floor.

We’ve all done it – gone out and bought something only to realise we have the exact same thing already at home (but it was so hidden away we couldn’t see it).  Knowing what you have will help you avoid repeat purchases. 

Are you ready to make some savings?


Thing you can declutter right now (one small step)

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The children have resumed school and nursery, the ‘Big Declutter’ job that you’ve been putting off is now looming.  If you’re having kittens just thinking about it, don’t let the overwhelm put you off. 

Sometimes when decluttering you just need some small wins to get started.  Don’t worry if you don’t have time – here are some items you can say thank you and goodbye to right now.  Don’t worry, you just have to pick one!

- Magazines not in the current month

- Newspapers

- Stained clothing

- Frayed towels (and towels that can stand up on their own!)

- Shoes that pinch

- Socks with holes

- Broken items that can’t be fixed (you know, the thing that’s been lying on the kitchen table forever!)

- Old mobile phones

- Cleaning supplies that haven’t been used in a year

- Last year's suncream

- Old cans of paint that have gone dry or separated 

- Those little dispensers for children’s pain relief medicine (just keep one)

- Expired medicines (yes, that half empty bottle of Calpol)

- Dried up pens, broken biros

- Chipped mugs or plates

- Any random leaflets that come through the door

- Takeaway menus (you can look them up online anyway)

- Ring binders that don’t meet in the middle

- Weird liqueurs bought on holiday that don’t work so well once back home

- Christmas hamper pickles you’ll never use

- Old catalogues

- Broken or wrong strength reading glasses

- Creased wrapping paper

- Old, used notepads

- Small change collect and take to the bank ( I love those machines at METRO)

- Old receipts (scan if you need a record)

- Birthday cards 

- Wire coathangers (the free ones from the drycleaners – you can return them there for recycling)

- Business cards (take a photo with your phone for important ones or add directly to contacts)

- Half used notebooks

- Recipes cut from magazines (if you haven’t cooked it yet, you never will)

- Store reward cards (now you have the app)

- Keys without locks

- Padlocks without keys

- Rubber bands and name badges from expo’s, theme parks etc.

- Disposable chopsicks, mini soy sauce packets etc from take-aways

How many did you find?

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Marie Kondo’s Konmari™ method is supposed to be a ‘once in a lifetime tidying event’ but does this really mean once you declutter, organise and tidy that you’ll never have to do it again?  

Of course not – unless you were to stop everything coming into your home, not buy another thing EVER, stop the kids from growing or move out.  However, if you do a thorough and DEEP declutter – that is, going through everything systematically category by category as per the Konmari™ method you will have the much simpler task of maintenance.   One easy way to do this is to have a regular ‘reset’.  Everyone’s household is individual with it’s own needs and priorities so you’ll need to work out what works best for you.  Here are just a few  examples, I’m sure you can come up with some of your own. 

Daily reset

- Once you’ve done a deep declutter, everything should have a home.  Make sure everyone in your household knows where everything lives.  So, for example, at the end of playtime, the children put away their toys.  If you work from home have a clear desk policy at the end of your working day.   Once the evening meal is finished, wash the dishes (or stack the dishwasher) so you don’t come down to a mess in the morning (that’s no way to start the day!) 

- Plump the cushions on your sofa before you go to bed

- Put dirty clothes in the laundry

- Make the bed (teach the children to make their own!)

- If you have an upstairs, grab a basket and put anything in it that goes upstairs and take it all up at once to put away

 Weekly reset

- Clean the fridge and take stock of what you have and what you need to buy

- Update family calendar 

Monthly reset 

- Declutter paperwork  and weed out bills that have been paid, old receipts etc

- Check freezer contents and make sure oldest items are moved to the front

Termly reset 

- Check school clothes still fit and declutter those that don’t to the school used uniform shop

Seasonal reset

- Take winter coats to dry cleaners before storing away

- Schedule a trip to the charity shop/recycling depot

Yearly reset

- Reset your vision – do your surroundings still support you?

- Analyse what’s working and what isn’t  

   Systems, habits and routines will help maintain your decluttered home.  The aim is to keep things as simple as possible and not create more work.

Holiday packing

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Whether you’re holidaying at home or away or staying with friends,  I’ve got some great packing tips to help everything run smoothly.  I’ve just had a lovely few days in our own Yorkshire Dales – perhaps not the Summer break I’d been planning but every bit as good.   Maybe you’re already a boss at packing – in which case, read no further! 

Can you remember back to before children when all you had to do was plan your outfits and pack for one?  There’s enough to think about before we go away (even more so at the moment) so let’s get a system in place to simplify packing .

List – I love a list but never more so than when I’m packing to go away.  I feel safe in the knowledge that once everything’s ticked off that list, nothing’s left behind.  I find the easiest thing is to save a basic packing list on your phone or computer for each family member.  This will include things you will need to take every time you go away i.e. the essentials.   You can then add specifics each time depending on where you’re going and how long for.  Only tick off the items once they’ve been packed. With older children, you could try giving them their own list so they can gather the items to pack.  There are some great free templates available for eg. ‘holiday itinerary’ on apple numbers.

Gather – Get together everything on your list and lay it out on the floor or bed (even better if you have a spare bed and can add to the pile as the laundry’s done).  You will probably only wear half of the clothes when you’re away so go through and remove anything unnecessary.  Think about clothes that can double up (eg, a long-sleeved shirt worn as a jacket, family shampoo combined with body wash), will you have access to a washing machine? Sticking to a simple colour palette of say, three colours, will also help you create more outfits.  Cross off your list anything you won’t be taking.

Pack – There are two main methods of packing that will leave your clothes crease free (you didn’t go on holiday to iron, right?)  - the ‘lay it flat’ method or the fold/roll method.  As a KonMari™ consultant I subscribe to Marie Kondo’s folding method.   I’ll tell you why – it means that when I unpack, I can just lift the vertically folded clothes out of the suitcase and put them directly in the drawers/cupboards.  I can see exactly what’s in my case without having to lift things – and if space is tight, clothes can stay folded in my case and will remain easily accessible.   You can go a step further and use ‘folding cubes’ as shown – these fabric cubes enable you to keep like with like – so you can for instance, fold and store all your tops together or have different colour cubes for each family member if you’re sharing a suitcase.  

I’m not going to go into all the ins and outs of packing as I’m sure you’ve got your own preferred methods but it’s worth remembering the following:

-        make sure any suncreams, shampoos etc. are in separate sealable bags  (you only need have a bottle leak once and you’ll always remember to do this!)

-        pack shoes around the outside of a case (use shoe bags if you have them)

-        pack heavy items (hairdryers/toiletries) in the centre of the case first

-        bring a laundry bag/pillowcase or two so you can put laundry directly in there – then when you get home it can go straight in the machine

Have a great holiday!



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I want to talk about PREPARATION. That is, what steps you need to take before you begin to declutter your space.   If you’ve ever painted a room, you’ll know the more time you spend doing the prep properly, the better the result will be and the smoother the paint will go on.  It’s the same for decluttering. 

Time –  the first thing to do is to block off and ring fence time in your calendar.  It’s easy to dismiss a task like decluttering as unimportant and shift it down your ‘to do’ list but how you feel about the space around you really does have an impact on other areas of your life.  Even at it’s simplest, having a less cluttered space will save you time spent cleaning.   Be  realistic about the time it’s going to take for each task and don’t try and do it all at once!   Once you have the date in your diary, don’t forget to tell  other members of household – they may not be completely on board but at least they’ll know you haven’t finally lost it!

Vision and purpose -what do you hope to achieve?  Why do you want an uncluttered space.  Is it so that you feel more prepared when friends drop round unexpectedly?  Is it to free up time to do other things ( looking for lost keys etc. can take up so much time), is it to have a calmer environment?    Your reasons will be individual to you.   Use a vision board (see blog… see how to make one to help you

Practical matters -  that is, equipment and space.  Gather together everything you need to help your task run smoothly.  This could include for example; boxes or bags for your discarded items, post it notes/labels, folders if you are sorting through paper clutter,  category check lists, cloth/hoover to clean the space once it’s been emptied,  water to keep hydrated.  Also, prepare the space. By this I mean think about where you’re going to put items as you empty cupboards and sort through them.  If you’re going through kitchen cupboards you may want to put a cloth on the floor an sort things there.  Clothes emptied from a wardrobe might want to go on a spare bed (or your own bed if you are confident, you have enough time to finish the task completely before bed time!)

Exit route – Once you know what’s leaving the house, make sure it does as soon as possible.  To enable this, have a think before you begin about the types of things you will be discarding and which charity shops etc will take them (and when you can take them there).

A word about craft supplies


So, some of you will be thinking ‘who on earth has time for crafts?’ Others will be aspiring to have their own CRAFT ROOM one day… This one’s for the crafters/would-be crafters. I’m a ‘dabbler’. My mum taught me to ‘learn one new thing every year’ – which sounds great, but I ended up with all the paraphernalia associated with each new hobby (millinery, painting, jewellery making, patchwork, knitting… ) the list goes on.  I knew I had to have a serious cull and choose one or two that I really enjoyed and just keep the best supplies associated with these.

So, how do you declutter and  organise your craft supplies without feeling overwhelmed?

Before starting – have a serious think about which crafts you still enjoy and have time to do. All those supplies take up valuable space not just physically but unfinished projects take up ‘brain space’.   If you started a project 5 years ago – what realistically are your chances of ever getting round to finishing it? 

1 – This is going to take time, so find a clear an area where you can put out all your supplies for one craft.  Put with it anything associated with this craft from around the house (for example, you may have a sewing basket, but you also have sewing scissors and thread left out from labelling school uniform).  Grab a large box and label –‘ discard’

2 – Now separate into piles, putting like with like.  This enables you to see what you have, and if you have any duplicates.

3 – As you  put similar items together, choose the best – the items you will actually use soon – and put the rest in your discard box.  This includes all the bits of fabric, ribbon, paint, spare buttons etc. left over from previous projects – chances are, you will never get round to using them.  Clients of mine who are teachers always see every scrap of paper, piece of string etc as a ‘resource’ and are hesitant to discard them but they are only a resource if you will use them and know where to find them!

Knowing that you spent a lot of money on supplies should never be a reason to keep them.  The money has been spent – don’t feel guilty about letting them go.  Before you start decluttering, it’s worth doing a bit of research to see where you can send the supplies you no longer have use for.   Here are some ideas to get you started:

ReusefulUK | Reuse of resources for community benefit through the diversion of clean reusable scrap waste materials from businesses

(1) Donating Unwanted Craft Supplies (

Work and Play Scrapstore - West London Waste

Age UK needs your yarn, needles and pattern donations for knitting | Life | Yours

4 – Repeat for each craft

5 – Now the fun part, now  that you’ve decluttered – it’s time to organise.  You may have a craft room, or it might be a cupboard, a drawer or a shelf.  Whatever you have, it’s worth having a look on pinterest and in craft shops for inspiration. There’s a wealth of ideas on the web.  The main thing you need to remember is that everything should be – VISIBLE and ACCESSIBLE.

Store things vertically where possible, make use of hooks, peg boards and shelves.  If you’re using boxes, use clear ones (or wire baskets) so you can see what’s inside.  Repurpose  over door shoe holders for small items.  Be inventive, use what you have.

Once everything’s got a permanent home then you can start labelling- either using a label maker, printing from the computer, hand writing sticky labels or carboard tags – whichever ‘look’ you prefer – just be consistent.

You’ll find that once you’ve pared down your supplies you will actually have more time to spend (and more inclination) on the crafts you truly enjoy.  Have fun!


Things professional organisers have in their kit and one thing they never have

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This week I thought you might like a cheeky peek into what professional organisers might take with them on client visits.  It’s not an exhaustive list and every organiser is different.  These are  just some of the items I’ve found come in handy time and time again.  You’ll probably find you have most of these items at home already...

Tape  measure – always useful for measuring cupboards to see how much space there is for storage units

ID protection roller – these are great for when you have a small amount of printed papers with personal details on them to discard instead of shredding

 Label maker – I have a hand held ‘Brother’ one that I absolutely love. Most models have a selection of tapes for a multitude of uses – paper, wash proof and even iron on labels for school kit. Spare batteries and tapes are a must when I visit a client.   If however, you like the large ‘home edit’ style labels you can find a large range on Etsy

Masking tape  - If you don’t have a label maker and want to make a temporary label for something, masking tape does the job perfectly and is a good low cost solution.  I like to use them to label  ‘use by’ dates on the underside of glass jars I’ve decanted food into.

Screw driver – sometimes to create the right space in a wardrobe or kitchen cupboard all that’s required is a shelf moved up or down.

Cable ties – as well as using for their intended purpose, grouping cables neatly together, they can be used to hold other objects together eg pencils.  I have some lovely Velcro ones in different colours (Robert Dyas/Amazon stock these)

Black sharpie – for marking boxes of discards with their intended destination

Post it notes – these have so many purposes;  they’re not only  really useful when sorting paperwork into categories or when organising printed photos but also good to label piles into keep/donate/recycle and ear mark empty cupboard space before items are moved there.

Bin bags /charity bags – for those items that are going to another home. Before decluttering it’s always good to have a clear exit policy and know where you are going to pass on the things you no longer need.   The quicker they leave the home the better!

The one thing professional organisers always leave behind?


Sustainable decluttering

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So here’s the thing, I really, really care about the environment and climate change and often feel bad because I’m not doing enough but according to Howard Zinn ‘we don’t have to engage in grand, heroic actions to participate in change.  Small acts, when multiplied by millions of people, can transform the world.’ In other words, everyone doing a little bit is better than one person doing it all.  People often ask me how decluttering can go hand in hand with sustainable living given that it’s all about ‘tossing things out’.  The answer is that decluttering can actually give you HUGE sustainability points if it’s done the right way. 

First, you need to realise that decluttering isn’t an instant fix.  I could easily walk into a client’s home, dispose of unwanted items and leave it looking pretty but I can guarantee that three months down the line the clutter levels will be pretty much back where they started.    It’s easy to get into the cycle of buying things, clearing out then buying more things to replace those things.  Here are some steps you can take to ‘break the cycle’.

- First look at WHY you have accumulated a lot of things in the first place. What kind of shopper are you?  How can you avoid the same pitfalls in future? TIP – if you want a clue, go to your Amazon account and look at your past buys

- Now look at why you’ve kept things, some common reasons might be:

‘It cost me a lot of my hard earned money’ – the money’s already been spent.  Keeping it won’t get you your money back.

‘It was a gift’ – the gift was the joy you got at the time you received it

‘It’s useful’ – my Dad was always picking up ‘useful pieces of wood’ – they may have been useful to someone but definitely not to him as he didn’t have a workshop

‘I’ll use it some day’ – ‘some day’ often means never

‘It has sentimental value’ – this is a tough one, but better to keep fewer sentimental items that REALLY MEAN SOMETHING and display them where you can see them than have a whole load of stuff buried under the bed

‘I’m keeping it for my children’ – it was a tough lesson when I realised my son didn’t want my collection of ID magazines from the 80’s

Decluttering is a teaching tool – it teaches us to value and look after the items we choose to keep and  not make the same purchasing mistakes.  

Get to know where you can repair items locally, for example,  does your dry cleaners offer a clothes alteration service? 

‘There is no such thing as  AWAY.  When you throw something away it must go somewhere’  Annie Leonard 

The aim here is to keep your declutterings out of landfill.   This means re-homing them. It’s good to get things off the premises as soon as you can so make sure you think about where it’s all going to go – do some research. 

So, for example, you could organise a clothes swap with other mums in your post-natal group.

Sell items – just know that you will often get less than you think you will.  If you have higher valued items, it’s worth using a third party eBay seller e.g. Stuff U Sell  A new, simpler way to sell on eBay | Stuff U Sell

Take items in good condition to the charity shop – just call ahead to check what they’re accepting. 

Use textile and shoe banks.

Make use of apps like Olio OLIO – The #1 Free Sharing App (’, ‘freegle’ Freegle - Don't throw it away, give it away! ( and Nextdoor 

Recycle now is a great resource if you get stuck Recycle Now | Where and How to Recycle

When it comes to organising storage for my clients, I always encourage the use of storage boxes they already have  - scroll down to last July’s blog to find out more.

Once you’ve decluttered take the time to reflect on your past buying habits and really think responsibly when you make future purchases; buying less, buying better and buying things that last benefits us all.


Cable spaghetti!

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Do you have a bunch of unidentified cables in your home, tangled together but kept in case one of them turns out to be super important?  Or perhaps you have so many chargers and cables plugged in everywhere it’s sometimes hard to remember what goes with what. Don’t worry, you’re not alone… 

So, here’s how to deal with your cable spaghetti

First, let’s address that big pile of cables  - for this project you’ll need time and a pinch of patience (a quality my husband tells me I’m severely lacking –  20 years with him says otherwise).

1 – get out all your cables and match them up with items you have

2 – label each cable – I use a hand held label printer but you could just as easlily write on a piece of masking table and stick it to itself.  At the same time you may want to label related charging plugs.

3 – put all those old unmatched cables that you were holding onto ‘just in case’ in a bag for recycling

Recycling solutions:

Most local authority recycling take cables, chargers and plugs  

Vodaphone take Accessories such as head phones, powerbanks, chargers and data cables,

Rework take cables, chargers and plugs

Freecyle/freegle are good for offloading specific parts and It’s worth checking with your local secondary schools to see if they need cables for STEM projects

Now that you know what goes with what, you need to store them effectively.  An internet search will provide many solutions, but these are my favourite:

1 – Store cables you use less frequently in a box with compartments -  I use one of those boxes designed to hold Christmas baubles. 

2 – Use spiral cable concealers or binder rings to group together several hanging cables coming from one piece of equipment.  Velcro cable ties spaced at intervals also work.

3 – Conceal your power strips and extension cords using cable tidy boxes. Any fire proof box with an inlet and outlet will do.  I found some nice inexpensive ones in Flying Tiger

4 – Fastening bulldog clips to the side of your desk  and threading cables through can keep them off the floor

My top tip is to label the cable/plug of any new tech straight away – it really will save you time.



The weather’s finally warming up a bit so now’s a good time to tackle your garage.  I’m not lucky enough to have one myself but my parents garage ended up as an overflow storage unit – no -one had any idea what was in there and looking at some of my clients, they were certainly not alone.  In London, real estate is expensive and every square meter counts – why would you want to fill it with junk?  Below, is an overview of making your garage space fit for perfect.

All of my projects start with two things – commitment and vision.   So first, look in your diary and importantly the weather forecast (as much of the contents will be hauled outside) and commit to a couple of clear days. You may need another pair of hands so factor in their availability too.  Also, think about where you’re going to dispose of things you no longer need , for example is there a local charity that can collect large items (and can you organise a collection on the day of your clear out) do you need to hire a skip, what day is your rubbish collection?     

Next, have a good think about how you want to use your garage space – do you need it to park your car, store bikes or use as a tool shed or workshop?  Draw out a plan with measurements and buy any shelving you might need.   Once you have a clear vision of it’s intended purpose then you can begin.

1   Clear out – designate three separate areas; items to keep, items for donation or sale, items for rubbish or recycling.

Throw the rubbish out straight away (in bins or a skip) so you’re not dealing with it twice.

As you put items into your ‘keep’ pile, put them in categories e.g., tools together, gardening equipment with handles together, paint together etc.  That way you can see exactly what you have. 

2   Clean – Now is a great chance to get rid of those cobwebs, sweep down the floor and take a good look at how much space is available.  

3   Store - Take stock of any existing storage you might have – do shelves need adjusting or moving.  What worked for you and what didn’t?  Take a look at your keep pile – hopefully you’ll have less to put back in.

Look at the space – do you want to store things vertically or horizontally?  Are you able to hang things from the ceiling?

Aim to store as much as possible off the floor – you don’t want to find your garage has  become a vermin hotel

Good storage solutions include:

- Clear plastic tubs – it’s really important to be able to see the contents.

- Pegs, hooks and peg boards

- Wire racks

- Adjustable shelving


Declutter your garden

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For those of us lucky enough to have gardens it looks like we’ll be spending a lot of time in them this year with visiting friends and relatives hastily marched through the forbidden indoor area to the outside. But hang on - the garden hasn’t been touched since last Summer, it’s a complete mess and your five best friends have invited themselves round next weekend! 

Ok, don’t panic.  Like decluttering a room, you’ll be doing it one step at a time...

1 Remove the rubbish -  grab a bag and gather up all those old broken pots (or those housing dead plants), dog mauled tennis balls, broken clothes pegs, damaged tools and anything else that shouldn’t be there.   Any reusable pots, bamboo sticks etc should be gathered together and put in one spot.  Any tools in good condition that are no longer used can be donated to The Conservation Foundation’s Tool Shed project Tools Shed - The Conservation Foundation which works with prisoners to refurbish them and pass them to schools.  Or which collects to refurbish and ship to Africa.

Outdoor toys – collect these together – are they stlll used and fit for purpose?  Give them a clean and sell or give away any in good condition that the children have outgrown. Store the keepers in one place in waterproof boxes or bins.

2 Tidy up - Trim your hedges, weed the flower beds and mow the lawn.  

3 Clean - If you have a BBQ, is it ready for use?  Mix 500ml of vinegar and the same amount of water in a spray bottle,  spray the solution onto the grill and leave for 10 minutes. Empty the bottle, refill with vinegar, spray on and then scrub to clean the grill and the inside.

Garden furniture – scrub down and leave to dry in the sun – does any of it need fixing, a lick of paint or new covers?

Patio – give it a good sweep and a hose down.  If you want to make it look really good, borrow or hire a pressure hose

4 Decorate – think of your garden as another room in the house – add some solar powered  fairy lights ,cushions ,rugs

5 Pour yourself something cold, sit back and enjoy!

A good night's sleep

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Nothing makes you feel better than a restorative nights sleep and nothing makes you feel worse than not having one.  I’m not a sleep expert but I do recognise that having a calm uncluttered space dedicated to sleep and nothing else goes a long way to helping. So, here are my thoughts...

A room fit for purpose.  I do realise that in these Covidy times you may have had to squeeze a work desk into your bedroom but if at all possible, the best nights sleep will come from a room that is dedicated to sleep only.   That is, the only reason you go in there is to sleep (or to change, assuming your wardrobe is in your bedroom).    If your desk is there, your thoughts at night will be drawn to work.  Best to keep TV’s out of bedrooms too.

Clutter.  It can be harder to get a good nights sleep when your surrounded by clutter – it’s distracting and certainly doesn’t imbue the calm atmosphere you’re looking for.  Think about when you’re on holiday and stay in a hotel (I know, distant memories!) How easy is it to get to sleep in such a calm, uncluttered environment.  Keep that in mind – this is what you want to create.   Now take a look at your room and see where the clutter hot spots are – the common ones are...

Under bed – you may have a divan drawers or under bed storage containers - do you know what’s in them?  Or maybe like many people you have a host of things you no longer want or need shoved underneath gathering dust.   Put aside some time and take everything out, then put back only what you need.  

Floordrobe – not just the domain of teens!  Get everything off the floor and back in the cupboard.  It really will save you time in the morning when you’re not scrabbling through a pile. 

Chair/exercise bike – so many of my clients have a chair or exercise bike in their bedroom that isn’t used for the purpose it was designed for but has been repurposed as a make shift clothes horse.   Just don’t.

Side table  - these are very useful but don’t use them as an excuse to dump stuff.  If you like to read in bed, you just need the one book you are currently reading.  Try and keep it as clear as possible.

Other things to consider  - to create that ‘boutique hotel’ feeling you may want to add some:

Natural scent – I know candles are very popular but the tiny particles they give off are both polluting for our homes and can cause health problems. Why not consider something more natural – essential oils added to baskets of pine cones are a great way of scenting a room or if you like sprays, you could add a few drops to water in a spray bottle.  Good oils in the bedroom include lavender, clary sage, valerian root, roman chamomile and sweet marjoram.

Fresh scented  flowers or dried lavender are also lovely to have around.

Crips white sheets – Ok , they can be any colour you want!  My indulgence is organic cotton sheets which truly give me the best nights sleep but whatever bed linen you use, make sure it’s changed regularly. And don’t forget to turn your mattress every season (you’ll need an extra pair of hands for this one!)

Guard your sleep  - it’s precious!

Spring cleaning v decluttering

cleaning v decluttering blog pic

Spring is in the air and many a mind is turning to ‘Spring cleaning’ - not mine, I might add as cleaning is not my favourite pastime. 

With that in mind, I’m all for ways to make cleaning easier. You can go online and find many cleaning schedules but none of it will help if you don’t declutter first.

 Yes, decluttering comes BEFORE cleaning. 

The advantages of decluttering first are:

You have less to clean - why spend time cleaning things you no longer need or want?

It’s a lot easier to clean clear surfaces so try and keep all flat surfaces clutter free. If you find this difficult, start with one surface, for example a coffee table or bedside table and experience the pure joy of a clutter free surface.   Then, add a new one each week.  Note, with this one you have to be VERY strict with whomever you share your house with and make sure everyone abides by the no dumping rule.  That’s not to say surfaces can’t be used but after they’ve served their purpose (e.g. art homework project, dinner) clear everything away.

If you’re decluttering your wardrobe or cupboards you can give them a really good wipe once they’re empty.

You can clean more quickly if you have less items to lift/move around and time is a very precious commodity these days! This also means day to day maintenance cleaning eg, wiping the kitchen worktop, cleaning round the shower takes minutes and doesn’t seem like such a chore. 

Decluttering can bring up a lot of dust - think of all those books that haven’t been moved from their shelf for years, that stash of stuff under the bed…

While you’re on a  decluttering roll, why not take a look at your cleaning supplies and ditch any empty bottles - update your mop heads etc. so you’re good to go.

If you do want to clean once you’ve decluttered take a look at my Local Mums Online blog September 9th below for some budget and environmentally-friendly cleaning products.

Back to school



After what seems like years of the children being home from school – suddenly they’re back.  Did anyone else discover their offspring’s feet had grown a whole size?  I practically shoe horned my son’s feet into his old shoes which will have to do until the new ones arrive. It really feels like a new school year, so with that in mind I’ve got a few tips on how to keep school kit organised to keep things as easy as possible.

Your children will probably be using the same school bags from the last time they were in school and if they’re anything like mine, a half-filled water bottle will still be languishing at the bottom.  Now, if your children are old enough – there’s no reason they can’t follow these steps themselves. (Delegation is key to a calm and happy life!) 

Before you start you will need: newspaper, damp cloth, bin, small zip bags (preferably transparent) or similar, sticky name labels, label maker or marker pen.

Whether you have junior school or older secondary school children – the process is the same.

So, the first thing to do is...

Make a checklist  your school may already have a checklist of items you must bring to school each day – make your own to include these and any other essentials and print it off.

Empty it out find a big space of floor and put down some newspaper  before emptying everything out (including all the itty bitty pockets). Have a bin handy and put any obvious rubbish directly in in. Give the back a good wipe with a damp cloth and leave to dry (inside out if possible).

Sort  the items with the checklist in front of you.  Everything essential that’s on the list goes in one pile, everything else in the other.    Now carefully look at the ‘other’ pile – is there anything that really needs to go to school?  Your bag is a V.I.B. and only the most important items get to live in it! Move those items to the essential pile and put the others away

Fill  hopefully the bag should be dry by now – take a look at your essentials pile and see if anything needs labelling, fixing (pencilled sharpened) or replacing (make a note).   You are now going to group together smaller items that belong in the same category and keep them together either in a zip bag or in one of the pockets.  For example, (spare face mask, hand gel and tissues), (lunch pass, bus pass, keys and phone), (pencil case).  When filling the bag, it’s good to give each item a distinct place in the bag and use the same place every time eg. ‘my water bottle lives in the side pocket’, ‘my phone lives in the small inside pocket’ – that way its easier to retrieve things quickly.  For secondary school kids it’s quite useful to have a separate clear wallet to put any random pieces of paper into.

The checklist can now be stuck on the fridge or blue tacked to the indside of the wardrobe door – anywhere it will be seen.

Of course, after a week or two the bag will end up with random sweet wrappers, bits of paper, birthday cards etc at the bottom so this is why it’s a good idea to -

Reset  either on a Friday or Sunday afternoon by emptying out the bag and taking out anything not on the essentials list. I’ve found it’s a great way to discover parental consent forms squashed at the bottom!

So, now you have the bags sorted out – what’s the best way to store them? 

Always store school bags where the children can easily reach them (and put them away) – seems simple enough – but if your child can't reach the bag peg, it will end up living on the floor

So, wall pegs are always good – especially for junior school age where the bags are much smaller and lighter

If you have a bit more space, there are some great IKEA hacks using Kallax cubes or you could use reconditioned lockers (with space to hang coats and store school shoes)

I would also highly recommend colour coding storage if you have a larger family.

Organising canine supplies


Did you know 6.6 million households in the UK own a dog?   Whether you’ve had a four legged family member for a while or like many are new to pet ownership now is a good time to organise your pet supplies if you haven’t done so already.  Canine clutter can very easily build up and migrate to all areas of the home.  The good news is that the clutter can very easily be brought to heel (see what I did there?).  Here’s how:

Everything you need for this very important family member can be divided into these basic categories;

-        Toys

-        Grooming equipment

-        Food and medicines

-        Clothing

-        Things needed for walks

-        Paperwork

-        Miscellaneous

For each of these categories  you’ll need to

-        Collect everything together in one place, putting like with like to see what you have

-        Declutter

-        Organise (with correct storage and designate an area)

So, taking a closer look at each category

-        Toys –  does your dog have favourites that they use all the time and some have been untouched?  Think about how many they actually use and need.   Once decluttered toys can then be stored together in a basket where your dog can easily access them (and you can toss them back in afterwards)

-        Grooming equipment – Again, sort through and make sure everything you have is being used, see if anything needs replacing and store together in a basket close to where you use it.

-        Food and medicines – Some food is fine stored in it’s original packaging but if you decant it make sure that the container is airtight

-        Clothing – do those coats still fit, need cleaning?

-        Things needed for walks . Still holding on to the puppy collar that your dog has grown out of?  Assess each item in turn.  The best place to store these items  is near the door where you can access them quickly for walks. Hang anything that can be hung on pegs  and make sure bag supplies are replenished

-        Paperwork - keep all pet-related paperwork together in one folder that everyone who needs to can access easily and quickly.  This could be with your family medical files whether they’re kept physically or on your computer

If you use a car, it’s a good idea to keep some supplies in the car that you need for journeys, stored together in a box in the boot

Where to donate pet supplies:

Check with your local foodbank for unused dog food/treats

Local animal sanctuary/dogs trust (may need to wait until re-opening)


vision board

As a KonMari™ consultant I talk a lot about ‘vision’ with my clients before we embark on a tidying project.   For me, this important first step is the difference between maintaining the organised space you want and relapsing into old habits.  The aim is to visualize your ideal life.

To help you get started, you can ask yourself questions like

-        What kind of lifestyle do I want?

-        Is there anything I would like to do more of? 

-        What colours do I like to surround myself with?

-        How would I like to spend my day?

-        What surroundings make me feel most comfortable?

-        When am I at my happiest?

I find it helpful to close my eyes and imagine my ideal  day from start to finish going into every detail from the first sip of freshly ground coffee to the feel of crisp white sheets when I tuck in

Don’t set limits on your imagination and don’t worry if your vision seems fantastical.

Once you’ve completed this exercise, the next thing to do is to record it – you can do this by

-        Writing it in a journal/notebook or on your phone where you can find it

-        Drawing pictures if you love to draw

-        Making a Pinterest board

-        Making a vision board

Personally, I like to make a vision board – to be honest, I just have a lot of fun cutting and pasting! I make one every year and stick it in the back of my wardrobe – but you could take a photo and use it as your screen saver, or glued to the front of your journal.

Here’s how to make one.

1 Gather together all the old magazines you have lying around the house (this is also a great excuse to declutter that stash!)

2 You’ll also need 

-        Scissors

-        Glue stick

-        Felt tip pens/sharpies

-        A3 card or paper (you can stick this on to the back of some card from a box to make it rigid)

3 Set aside some time and pull out all the pages that appeal to you and fit with your vision – this can include both pictures and words

4 Once you’ve got your pile next to you start cutting and pasting – it’s sooo thereputic

(You can always get the children to do some cutting and sticking of their own while you’re at it !)

5 Add some words of your own with felt tips/sharpies

6 Admire your work and stick it somewhere you’ll see every day

Mini projects


So here we are in lockdown #3 – sometimes taking on a whole new project can feel overwhelming but doing bite-sized tasks can help give you some control back and create a feeling of smug satisfaction.   Here are a few ‘micro’ projects you can do right now and will take less than half an hour:

-        Collect all the old magazines, papers in the house and put in recycling. 

-        Tackle your sock drawer

-        Clear out your handbag/purse

-        Clean the fridge and throw away any out of date food

-        Empty your kitchen junk drawer, put like with like and put back only items that are useful (you can use containers to separate the categories)

-        Check dry food storage for out of date items or close to date to use first

-        Clear out your makeup bag/drawer and wash brushes in baby shampoo

-        Collect all pencils and pens in the house, try them out and chuck the duds (sharpen pencils)

-        Delete unwanted photos from your phone

-        Clear message histories from your phone and update your apps

-        Gather together all your umbrellas and discard any with broken ribs

-        Go through childrens shoe collection and put aside any that are too small for your nearest shoe bank

-        Vertical fold your tea towels konmari style and file in your kitchen drawer

-        Grab a basket and set your timer for 15 minutes to collect everything you can from one room that doesn’t belong there

-        Designate a permanent home in your house for your keys, purse and phone

-        Put any rubbish in the bin/recycling

-        Find 3 things to donate and put them in a bag by the door

-        Sort through that pile of mail into keep, file and shred.    Deal with anything now that will take less than 2 minutes

-        Go through your cleaning bottles and get rid of any you don’t use

These are just a few ideas – I’m sure you can come up with plenty of your own.  Whether you tick them off once a day or once a week is up to you.


January 2021
Toy Storage

toy storage with labels

So, with Christmas behind us and, if they were lucky – more toys – now is the time to try and find space for them – whether it’s a corner of a bedroom, living room or dedicated playroom.  I remember before I had children I swore that I would only let properly made wooden toys enter my home – somehow all the plastic tat made it’s way in!

A children’s play space should be both nurturing and inspiring with space enough that you’re not going to accidently stop on a piece of lego (possibly THE most painful thing you can ever step on!). 

FIRST DECLUTTER – If you didn’t tackle this before Christmas, now is the time.  Make sure you involve your children in the decision-making process.  It can help to let them know that any toys they say ‘goodbye’ to will go on to make other children happy.   Children will most likely play with what they can see and is accessible – use this to your advantage!

NEXT, ORGANISE – Divide toys first by child, then by category.  Organise like with like and store together.  Depending on the space you have/budget you can use baskets, drawers, shelving with baskets (that can be repurposed as book shelves as the children grow,  units with baskets (eg, IKEA  Trofast/Kallux shelves )  Smaller items can be grouped together and put in boxes, pouches, bags, recycled jars, tins.   Drawers and containers can be colour-coded per child and labelled.  If your children are very young, use pictures instead of words for the labelling.

MAINTENANCE – So, you’ve got everything in order – how on earth do you keep it looking lovely? 

- Stick to a one in one out rule when accepting new toys.

- Set a good example.  Tidyness is a taught skill  - be their role model.

- Get your children to put everything away in it’s correct home at the end of the day (or at the end of playtime – at nursery they are used to doing this)  – lots of techniques help with this – you could sing/play a tidy up song, set a timer to make it a race, allocate a basket to each child and let them go round and gather everything up in a set time. give rewards and praise for specific tasks.

- Watch what comes into the home – you’re the gate-keeper

- Get into the habit of doing a maintenance toy declutter before birthdays/Christmas

Post-Christmas clear up


I love Christmas - the tree and decorations and all that comes with it. I don’t know about you but by January 6th I’m ready to have my house back. Possibly more important this year when we’re stuck at home in Tier 4 and need a calm, clutter free environment.   Here are a few tips for post Christmas organising  - and don’t forget to get the rest of the family to pitch in if they’re able.

Gifts – write thank you lists so you can write cards when you have a quiet moment.  Put gifts away in their proper homes and keep gift vouchers together.  Amazon vouchers can be entered directly into your account .

Unwanted gifts – hopefully you won’t have any, but if you do, put aside for the next school tombola

Put any clothing items that need returning aside to return as soon as you’re able.

Tree decorations  - small baubles can be stored in egg cartons, larger ones in boxes with home-made separators.  Keep colours separate and label each box.  If there are any that are broken or you know you’ll never use, now is the time to ditch them.    Wrap tree  lights around empty wrapping paper tubes, a coat hanger or  a piece of rectangular card with notches cut down both long sides.   All of these will avoid ‘the great untangling’ next year.

Other decorations – box and label clearly.  You might want to keep some of the items you will get out first easily accessible (eg, door wreath, advent candles. Unused wrapping paper).  Keep all decorations together, store like with like,  clearly labelled and in one place.

Rubbish – make sure you throw away all the packaging that any gifts came in.  Any boxes you didn’t re-purpose for decoration storage can be torn up and put in your recycling bin now.

Tree – if it’s real – check the dates on your local council website for collection- wrap it in a sheet or put it inside a duvet to carry it outside to minimise pine drop.   If it’s not real,  then bag it for storage.

Christmas cards – reuse by getting the kids busy making gift tags or cards for next year or recycle

Food – hopefully by now you’ve used up the Christmas leftovers (panettone bread and butter pudding anyone?)   but if you find yourself with an extra tin of biscuits/chocolates you know you won’t use you could give to your local foodbank or isolated elderly distribution centre.   Any weird pickles /pates etc can be rehomed via the ‘Olio’ app.  Give the fridge a good clean.

17th December

Last minute Christmas prep


It’s always good to start your Christmas planning early but don’t panic if you’ve left it all a bit last minute – make a note to start sooner next year and use my emergency strategy:

Vision    Before you start, have a  think about the Christmas you want for yourself and your family this year – granted it might be a bit different!  Do you want to incorporate old traditions, bring in new ones?  Is religion or the magic of Christmas important and how can you include these elements this year? (You can do this one in the bath!)

Plan     Make a plan – take half an hour (perhaps when the children are in bed), take out a fresh sheet of paper and write down everything you can think of that you need to do for Christmas – it’s so much better when it’s out of your head!  Now go through the list and see if there’s anything you can either delete or delegate.  Look at the list you’re left with and group tasks together eg, can you buy stamps with your grocery shopping?  Remember that most shops will be closed on Christmas day so stock up on batteries, candles, crackers  - things you are likely to forget.

Declutter  You won’t have time now for an in-depth declutter of the entire house so I suggest going round each room with a basket, filling it as you go with anything that’s not supposed to be there.  Set a timer if that helps.   Hopefully you will have decluttered your food cupboards (see last blog) but if not, your priority now is fridge and freezer space – go through and dispose of out of date food and use up left overs.

Clean Now the clutters out of the way you should have lots of easy surfaces to clean.

Guests Make sure you have enough clean bedding, towels and think through your COVID safe plan.

Gifts  Forgotten someone?  Think about vouchers that can be bought quickly on line for services, meals out, memberships to gardens or museums and art galleries.  Support small local business. The best gift you can give someone is your time.   No wrapping paper?  Use plain brown paper, you can get the children involved in printing it with potato stamps.  If you have collections of old fabric (for that sewing project you never got round to) you can use it to wrap gifts using (google) the Japanese art of Furoshiki.

Cards   Last posting dates for the UK are: Friday 18 December 2nd class, Monday 21 December 1st class.    If you’ve missed them – send an e-card, a New Year card or better still – pick up the phone.

Decorations  Involve the family – for example, keep them busy making paper chains, snowflakes or pom poms while you get on with other jobs

Above all, remember, IT DOESN’T HAVE TO BE PERFECT!!

Happy Christmas X

Food cupboard

storage jars

Whether you’re having family over for Christmas or not, there’s no doubt there will be a lot more kitchen activity over the next month.  My husband’s family is Swiss, so I always bake Swiss Christmas biscuits to bring a little bit of Switzerland  home.  This year I’m ahead of the game and have frozen the dough ready for baking in the holidays with the help of my son.

So, how can you prepare your food storage ahead of time so you can ease into the festive season?

First of all, you need to take stock of what you already have. How many times have you gone out and bought something and then found two already in the back of the cupboard?  Knowing what you have can actually save you money.  Here’s my step by step guide.

1 –  Have ready a cardboard  box for food bank donations

2 - Clear a space on your kitchen surface and take out your dry food supplies so you can see what you have.  If you have a very small kitchen, you may want to do this one cupboard at a time.

3 – Go through each jar/can/packet and check if the food is still within date – if the date’s close, put aside to use up this week.    Did you know spices lose their pungency?  After 3-4 year you may as well be adding dust to your food!

4 – Have a look and see if there’s anything you would never use – clue:  if you still haven’t used the kumquat chutney from the hamper you won at last years school Christmas tombola, you probably won’t ever use it.  If you’ve gone overboard with the COVID stockpiling  - is there anything on your locals food bank’s list that you can donate?

5 – Give those empty shelves a good clean and think about how you could best use the space – ideally, you want food that you use regularly within easy reach.  Seasonings and oils nearer to the cooker where you would use them,  heavier cans and tins lower down. (secret chocolate supply out of the family’s sight)

6 – Before you place the food back – group it together – i.e., dry baking ingredients together, breakfast things together, snacks together, sauces for Asian cooking together etc.

7- Put the oldest to the front so use use it up first

Notes on storage

You can go all ‘home edit’ and decant everything into storage jars – or just use what you already have .  If you do decant, then use a chalk marker or a piece of masking tape on the base of the container to mark the expiry date.

 Some people like to label everything – but, if somethings in a clear container then you can see what it is.  Personally, I just label flour and sugar where it’s difficult to determine which kind it is.

Finally, if it’s all a bit overwhelming, start small and organise your spice drawer/shelf



November 20
The linen cupboard


At this time of year, some of us will be getting ready to host family and thoughts will turn to “where are they all going to sleep” and “who’s going to get the short straw and sleep in the bath” – Ok, probably not the last one.  This year we don’t know what will happen by Christmas but it’s a good opportunity now, while nobody can stay, to take stock of your sheets, towels etc and see what you can ditch and what needs replacing . 

So, how many of everything do you actually need?  
As a rule of thumb, for duvet sets, sheets and towels one in use and one in the laundry is a good place to start.  Then, think about how often you have friends and family to stay (or will in the future) and how many spare beds you have.  Also, think about how often you run a laundry – if you have very young kids and are changing the sheets often (sometimes at 2.30am!) an extra set can be a good thing. 

What do you have already? 
Set some time aside while the kids are at school/nursery and get out all your sheets/towels – including the ones under the bed  - and put them in one place, in their categories.  This will give you a really clear picture of what you have.  Also, make a note of what is in use at the moment.  Now that you know the amount you actually need – go through and pick out the very best from your pile and put these aside to keep.   Personally, I find it useful to keep one old towel handy for plumbing emergencies.   The rest can be put aside for donation/textile bank. 

How much storage space do you have? 
Take a look at your storage space and how much you have.   How tall and deep are the shelves?  Can they be moved?  The goal is to have the items you use the most, easily accessible.  Many families I’ve worked with prefer basket storage.  Storing linen in labelled baskets helps prevent them getting mixed up and you can store sets vertically – storing sheets on top of each other means that when you pull one out, they all tend to come tumbling down.  Also, if they’re all the same colour, it’s hard to see what’s what.  I find it’s also helpful to keep bed sets together – you can either fold the sheet and duvet cover so that it fits into one of the pillow slips or fold the sheet and pillow case inside the duvet cover.  Towels can be folded or ‘spa’ rolled.  It may all seem like a bit of a faff but the time you spend now is time saved later.   I like to keep small soap bars (the type you pick up at hotels) tucked in between the sets to keep them smelling fresh.

*It doesn’t matter if you have an actual ‘linen cupboard’, a designated space in the wardrobe or some deep drawers – the principle is the same – Keep items in their separate categories, store vertically, most used at the front. 

If you keep to a simple system and share with the rest of your family, you never know – one day they may be able to get out their own sheets!


November 7

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I have to admit, I love books; the action of turning the pages and the weight in my hand, the smell of the ink. Now that we’re locking down again, nothing beats them for a bit of escapism.  I have a kindle which I love because it means I don’t have to take umpteen books on holiday with me, I can access thousands of books in an instant but I’m not ready to give up physical books yet.   

So, the question is – how many books is it ok to have?  The answer really is to keep as many or as few as you like as long as you have storage space AND  you love each and every one of them

You might want to think about what purpose your books serve – are they a décor feature?  Do you aspire to ‘Home Edit’ style shelves arranged in rainbow order or store them with the spine to the back of the shelf to maintain minimalist swathes of beige?   Are the titles displayed and books chosen to impress visitors? Are they practical books for your or your children’s studies?

How to sort out your books

Have ready suitable boxes for the books that you will be passing on.  More smaller boxes are better than one large heavy to lift box!

Power of the pile – it’s no good looking at titles on the shelf and deciding what you want to keep in situ – set aside some time (don’t underestimate) and remove all the books from your shelves throughout the house and gather together in one place.  You can treat the children’s books separately and do at a different time using the same process.

As you gather them together, try and keep ‘like with like’ i.e.  reference books, novels, travel, coffee table

Take a before photo! 

Now you can begin to sort through, choosing the books that you really love and deserve to take up space on your shelves – you can ask yourself the following questions if you get stuck;

Would I buy again

Would I be upset if I spilt my glass of wine on it?

Is it easy to replace if I decide I can’t live without it?

If its been on my shelf for a long time and I haven’t got round to reading it – will I ever? 

You’’ll also find some ‘easy wins’ - duplicates, library books to return, borrowed

Don’t forget to take plenty of tea breaks – it’s exhausting!  If you find you have a lot to get through, you can enlist the help of a professional organiser.

Before putting back those books that truly ‘spark joy’ give your shelves a good wipe.


So, what to do with those books that didn’t make the grade?

You have several options.

Sell your books using a barcode scanning app like or  - they will collect from you

Donate to a local charity (call ahead first to see which ones in your area are currently accepting books once everything’s open again)  who have a shop in Kingston accept books for the National Literary Trust

Don’t forget, there are many greener ways of enjoying books if you don’t like e-books

-        Libraries – a fabulous resource, and if they don’t have the book you want, you can order it.

-        Charity shops – use like a library and return after reading for re-sale

-        Book swap with friends (great for children’s books)

-        You can also set up your own ‘little free library’


October 22

Half term activities with the kids

kids fancy dress

This half term you might be looking for things to do with the children when they’re home.  How about an activity that will actually help you at the same time?  Here are some of my top tidy activities with children.

It’s never too late to introduce your little ones to the art of KonMari folding -  a habit that will set them up for life.   If you haven’t mastered the signature folding technique – now is the time to learn together.  Did you know Marie Kondo has written a children’s picture book ‘Kiki and Jax’ which introduces the concept of tidying but also has some really great folding diagrams for them to try out?

So what’s so special about the fold?

-        It enables you to see what you have at a glance

-        When you pull out one item the rest don’t come tumbling down

-        Clothes are less likely to crease

-        When you’re touching the clothes it’s easy to see if they need fixing/cleaning

Here are some other tidy activities:

The 10 minute tidy game -  set a timer, take a basket and pick up as many toys that are in the wrong place.  If you have more than one child, you can make it into a competition.

Treasure hunt (Collecting like with like – choose an item eg, crayons and get them to find all the crayons and put them in their ‘home.' Or you could do it by colour - go through the rainbow)

Make a check list of age appropriate tidying jobs for each child and get them to tick the list as they go with prizes for  completed lists.   For younger children, you can use pictures rather than words.

Visualisation game –  get a stack of magazines and some scissors and get the children to cut or tear images to stick to a large sheet of paper to create their dream house. 

Tidying up needn’t be boring – put on some music and dress up!  Batman or Cinderella will get the place tidy in no time!  And yes, you can dress up too if you want...


October 3

Wardrobe refresh


So, who’s up for a wardrobe refresh? Do you have an all-year wardrobe and keep everything together, adding a few layers when the temperature drops, or are you a winter wardrobe/summer wardrobe person?

Either way, now’s a great time to take a look at your clothes and re-assess if they are fit for purpose and reflect the person you are today.  Before you start, pick a day when you know you won’t have any distractions and will be able to focus on the task in hand. Tip: it will take a lot longer than you think. Also, visualise how you would like your wardrobe to look once you have finished.   

It’s worth investing in some good hangers; while wooden ones look good they can take up space. The slim, velvety ones take up less room and clothes stay on them.  Not only that, the clothes will hang at the same height.  Whatever you do NEVER use the free wire ones from the drycleaners – they will ruin your clothes and are only good for unblocking loos!

Step 1 – Find a clean space on the floor or bed and pile ALL your clothes up (if you think you won't finish in one go don’t use your bed or you’ll have nowhere to sleep!).  I’ve yet to meet a client who hasn’t been shocked at the amount of clothes they have.

Step 2 – Have ready two empty boxes and label them charity/sell and mending/cleaning

Step 3 – Select your three favourite items and hold them in your hands – how do they make you feel?  All your clothes should feel this good – this is what Marie Kondo means by ‘spark joy’

Step 4 – Go through all your clothes, one by one and put aside all that ‘spark joy’ – if any need cleaning or mending put them into the labelled box

Step 5 – For those that don’t make you feel good (too big, too small, keeping for magical weight loss event, sale bargain that never worked, wrong colour, broken zip, out of style) – discard with gratitude into your charity/sell box 

Step 6 – Put back into your wardrobe the clothes you are keeping – hanging from long to short, heavier fabrics to lighter.

Step 7 – Fold any clothes that can be folded rather than hung and store vertically in drawers with the heaviest jumpers at the bottom.

Don’t forget to step out of the room from time to time to stretch and hydrate!

*If you are taking clothes to a charity shop, remember, they want winter stock now.

September 19


cleaning products


Now that the kids are back at school, I’m finding it’s a good opportunity to give the house a good clean.  So what’s the difference between cleaning and tidying?

Author of  ‘The life changing magic of tidying up’ Marie Kondo puts it quite well:  "By tidying you’re confronting yourself.  By cleaning, you’re confronting nature."

Personally, I hate cleaning so I try to make it as easy as possible by aiming to keep surfaces as clear as I can (I know, not always possible in a shared family home but a good goal!).

It’s always a good idea to tidy before you clean and if you also manage to declutter some items there’s less to clean!

I also keep the products I use simple and minimise spraying stuff around – especially important with little ones.

Before you start it’s worth getting out all your cleaning kit and assessing what you have including throwing away anything that’s out of date or that you no longer use.  This will prevent you from duplicate buying, which will save  money plus enable you to use up the half empty bottles first.  I’ve visited houses which have lots of half empty bottles – they take up a lot of space!  

Keep all your cleaning products and cloths together in one place (and out of little people’s reach). If you have a container for them to keep them all together, even better.  I file fold my cloths and store them vertically so I can see what I have at a glance but that may be a step too far for some...

I know everyone has their favourite cleaning products but this is my cheap as chips eco cleaning kit:

Soda crystals - deodorise washing machine, remove burnt on food from pans, clean sinks and drains

White vinegar – clean washing machine drawers and door seal, glass, windows and shower head

Bicarbonate of soda – clean fridge, carpet, mattress and wooden chopping boards

Citric acid – uncloud glasses, descale kettle and toilet bowl

Baby oil – clean stainless steel fridge and cooker hob 

Of course, now with the pandemic to think about, I’ve added an antibacterial disinfectant to the list so I can go over frequently touched hot spots after they’ve been cleaned.

If you’re looking to instigate a good cleaning routine there are some brilliant websites, some which include printable lists – my favourites are and


September 5
10 organising strategies

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We’re going through an extraordinary time at the moment and we've had to adapt, swivel and pivot.  I thought I’d share with you 10 organising strategies I’ve adopted during the pandemic, some of which you may be doing yourself...

1) Keep  a container for shoes near the front door. Pre-covid I made everyone put there outdoor shoes away in their room (apart from walking boots and wellies which I allocated downstairs storage for) but now it makes sense not to bring footwear through the house so I’ve got a basket near the door to keep them together.  If you don’t have a basket, a sturdy cardboard box works well especially if you cut down the sides.

2) Keep masks handy. I keep everyone’s masks in a drawer in the hallway so they’re easy to grab on the way out.  It doesn’t really matter where you store them but keeping them in a designated place that all the family members are aware saves time.

3) Covid emergency box. At the beginning of the pandemic I put together some supplies in a labelled shoe box so I had it ready if a family member had to isolate: sanitizer, gloves, cleaning wipes, paracetamol and thermometer. 

4) Keep food supplies in order. Go through food to make sure it’s in date and put the oldest items in front so they get used first. Store everything so it’s visible then you’ll know when you’re running low.  With everyone suddenly at home for three meals a day I found meal-planning was more important.

5) Cleaning supplies. As with food supplies, keeping these where you can easily see what you have will let you know when you’re running out and stop you from over-buying.

6) Simplify wardrobe. I Learned which are my “go to” items of clothing – the ones I really love wearing. 

7) Being more conscious in my buying habits.

8) I’ve  been delegating more  tidying tasks – it’s all good learning.

9) Keep the garden clutter free so you can throw everyone out there.

10) Finally, I’ve carved out a reading corner in my living room – it’s my own space where I can escape/hide from my family… it’s a life saver!

August 21

Children’s Artwork

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With schools going back soon, one question I’m asked repeatedly by Local Mums is “what do I do with my children’s artwork pile?”

Yes, it can certainly add up. If you think how much they bring home in a week, then in a term and then multiply by each child.  Before you know it you’re drowning in art, lovely though it is!

You need a strategy. So here are some of my favourite tips – you can try some of your own

As with everything else you need to first sort then store.

- The end of each nursery/school term is the perfect time for a sort out

- Select one or two showcase pieces to display (framed on home gallery wall, magnetic clear pouches on fridge,string and clothes pegs)

- Spread all the work out and pick the best out of similar items 

- Limit yourself to keeping no more than 10 pieces per child per term (or come up with a feasible number yourself- less is best)  At this point you can also see if there are any pieces that can be mailed to Grandparents.

- If your child is old enough they can help you with the process

- If you’re ok about not keeping a physical copy there are still ways of preserving the memory for eg,  photo and keep on the cloud or on a memory stick or disc.  There are a few good apps around that enable you to sort and store, my favourites are  Keepy and Artkive

- Curate photos into photobooks by child/school year or have them made into professional books or a photo collage.  Snapfish and Bonusprint can do these or if you want to splash some cash can make a lovely coffee table book.

For physical copies, use storage boxes or folders and store by name and year; lots of fun ways you can do this:

- Suspension file boxes from the Really Useful Company – use their dividers to separate into school years.  One box per child.

- Artists portfolios (The Works had some reasonably priced ones, the last time I looked)

- Ring binders (use plastic inserts for artwork with loose bits)

- Storage boxes with either your child’s photo, their name or their own decoration on the front

- extra large Manilla envelopes

- tubes (though not my favourite as these are harder to access)

Don’t forget, the less you have, the more you’ll be able to appreciate them later – revisiting fond memories rather than wading through.   Think about why your storing them, is it for yourself or for your children? (When I was clearing out my parent’s garage a few years back I came across a big folder of artwork I’d made in primary school. It gave me a nostalgic glow looking back at it but it was momentary and certainly not worth storing all those years).

Whatever you do, have fun!

August 15

Handbag organisation


Now that we’re venturing out of our homes and back into the shops it’s time to dust down our handbags - most of us have one bag that we tend to use all the time, the one that’s the perfect size for our needs with the right strap length.   This is the one we’re going to deal with – if you use multiple bags, or have a designer bag you may want to invest in a handbag liner insert – there are many available on ebay to fit all sized bags.     

So here are some tips for a good handbag clear out:

First, ring fence half an hour of 'me’ time. Then

- Empty the contents of your bag onto a table or the floor  (you can put some newspaper down first)

- Give your bag a wipe inside with a damp but not wet cloth

- Now, scan everything and select only the items that you use daily – these are the only items that will have the honour of a place in your bag. Put them  aside.  

- Next, sort through everything else – can anything be thrown away ?  Does anything belong in another place?  (the other two lip balms for example)]

- Don’t forget to go through your purse/wallet and remove old receipts, out of date vouchers etc.  Can any store cards be ditched/replaced with an app? 

There may be some items pre covid that no longer serve a purpose.

- Once that’s dealt with you should just have left in front of you the items to return to your bag

- Categorise these and put like items together and store in smaller clear zip bags or pouches for example, hand sanitizer gel and face mask

- Store items and pouches vertically where possible – this way they are more visible and accessible

- Look for micro storage solutions, for eg, If you wear glasses, your headphones can be stored in your glasses case

How satisfying was that?!


Storage boxes – boxing clever


Marie Kondo once said “storage experts are hoarders.”  While it wouldn’t be fair to say that everyone who has a collection of ‘storage solutions’ has a hoarding disorder it’s a good idea to consider what you’re storing away, why you’re storing it and how accessible it is.    

Tempting as it may be, buying lots of storage boxes won’t instantly transform your home into a beautifully organised sanctuary of calm any more than new fitness gear won’t transform you into an athlete. 

Before I visit local mums' homes or book a  Zoom session with them they invariably ask me “What storage do I need to buy before I start?” The answer is always nothing, the reason being...

- You don’t know what storage you need until you finish discarding (you will have less stuff and more space).

- Usually will already have lots of storage solutions in your home 

I always suggest reusing and repurposing storage that you have, it costs nothing and is a greener solution.  Here are some of my favourites:

Shoe boxes – for bras, small tops, scarves

Iphone cases – for stationary , electronic accessories

Small Ferrero Rocher plastic boxes (the perfect excuse!) – to separate little things in your kitchen junk drawer or as a bathroom drawer separator.

Old Tupperware boxes with missing lids – kitchen and bathroom storage

Cereal boxes cut down – separate packets in kitchen, DIY magazine rack for paper storage

You can be really creative with this if you want.

When everything is sorted, discarded and you know exactly what you have left and the amount of space available you can then buy some lovely storage boxes. With temporary storage in place you can afford to take your time and wait until you find something you really love and will be a good fit with your home décor. 

Cosmetics drawer overhaul

cosmetic drawer

I don’t know about you but I’ve been fairly bare-faced during lockdown, apart from a bit of lippy where Zoom meetings require.  Now we’re out and about a bit more it’s a perfect time to take a look at our cosmetic drawers and bags and take stock of what you have. Think of all the time you’ll save by not having to root around for your lipstick!     

First of all remove everything from your drawer or bag and lay the contents out where you have space on a sheet of newspaper and put similar products together.  If there’s anything that isn’t in the cosmetic category put it to one side (hair bands, face creams etc).  Today you’re just dealing with your colour cosmetics...

Pick out your favourites, your go-tos, the make up you use every day. If they’re still in good condition and in date you can put aside to keep.

Next, go though everything else, looking at each item:

- Do you use it?

- Have you ever used it?  

- Does it merit space if you only use it once a year?

- Has it expired? This is really important as like food cosmetics harbour bacteria.  Sometimes you can see this when foundation separates or changes smell but sometimes it’s not so obvious. The  average expirary date for foundation, powder, and other facial makeup is 12 months.

Some cosmetics have a little sticker (open jar icon) to say how long the product will last once opened but as a rule you should replace your mascara about every three months, eyeliner and eye shadow every six to 12 months and lipstick every 18 months.

Where possible, when you buy cosmetics you can put a sticker on it with the expiry date to remind you. 

Once you’ve chosen your ‘keeps’ 

 - Sharpen pencils

- Clean brushes

- Wash bag/or drawer

If you have a drawer put all the same things together – you can either separate with small boxes (packaging from phones, perfume, food boxes cut down to size) or I like to use a cutlery tray to separate my cosmetics in a drawer (mine came from Really Useful Products).  As my tray is transparent I lined the drawer with some gift wrap that I fell in love with – it makes me smile every time I open the drawer. 

Might just be me but I find there is something really satisfying about a well-organised cosmetics drawer! How about you Local Mums?

June 5
What to do with your declutterings ….

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With more time spent at home we’re all becoming more aware of our immediate environment and some have decided it’s time for a good clear out. Only one small problem, what to do with all those items that no longer ‘spark joy’ while the charity shops are closed?  

When I do a house declutter I always tell my clients that they need a solid exit plan for these items otherwise they do have an uncanny knack of making their way back into your life!  I’m hoping the charity shops will be open soon to take donations but until then you may want to consider the following;

-        If you’re lucky enough to have a loft, cellar or eves storage you can temporarily store your donations there  - but box them and tape them up!

-        Some recycling centres are now open to take recyclables but not re-usables (check ahead on website, Wandsworth for eg, is operating different opening days depending if your car has an odd/even reg no.)

-      The YoungPlanet app lets you list your items for free, save things from landfill and do your bit to save the planet by passing on used kids items

-        If you have jewellery to donate, the alzheimers society will send you a jiffy back to pop items into

-        If you have vintage items (toys, silverware, watches) vintage cash cow will collect from you

-        Designer clothes?  You can sell them with a consignment company like Cudoni HEWI

-        Other clothes?  Try or  the depop app if you have a teen in the house

-        Well loved teddy bears?  Send to where they will be lovingly restored for adoption

-        Use local websites like Facebook Marketplace

-        Ziffit are good for books – you can have fun scanning the barcodes too. 

-        Certainly around my neighbourhood, I’ve seen lots of books and childrens toys put in the front porch with a ‘Help yourself’ sign

This is not an exhaustive list but will give you some ideas until the charity shops open their doors to donations (hopefully soon).  

Happy decluttering local mums!


Tips for organising your home office

Do any other local mums feel like you’re busier than ever since lockdown?  Never mind making time to learn a language or a new craft, sometimes it seems like we’re fighting a losing battle juggling between home schooling, home working, preparing up to three meals a day and having no time to ourselves at all…   

I’m a professional organiser and even in my household things can get a bit busy but I’ve got some great tools to help escape the overwhelm but for now, I’m going to keep the focus on those of us working from home.   Whether you’ve suddenly found yourself WFH or you’ve always remote worked but now with a full house it’s more of a struggle here are a few tips to get local mums started.

·      Visualise your day – how much time can you allocate to work?  What would you like to have more time for, spend less time on?  When are you most productive?  How would you like your office space to look?  How will you be using it e.g., if you’re making lots of zoom calls, you’ll need somewhere relatively quiet with a good light source).

·      Set up your workspace. Not everyone has the luxury of a ‘home office’ but have a look around and see where you can carve yourself out a little space.  Some of you may have read about Sarah Ward, the mum from Cheshire who transformed her airing cupboard into an office for £6 – and I’m not suggesting everyone try that but think about being more creative with the space that you do have.   Where could you fit a desk or a shelf?

·      Be clear about your working hours and make sure everyone in the house knows the times when you’ll be unavailable – stick police tape across your door if you have to!! 

·      If you already have a desk/office start with a tidy desk.   Remove everything from it and put back only the items you need.

·      It’s a good idea to store pending paperwork vertically (you can use a magazine rack) so you can see and access it more easily.

·      Signal the end of your working hours by wiping down the desk.

·      If the desk is used at different times by different family members, keep a box to put all the things you will need for your work (eg, laptop, charger, stationery, pending file) and make sure everything is stored in your ‘portable office’ when you have finished.

Hopefully, these few tips will help local mums get started.

About Victoria
A background in hotel management and over 15 years as an office manager/PA in the City has honed my organisational skills . However, when it came to my personal belongings I have always been naturally untidy so when I discovered a system that worked for me I knew it would work for anyone.

I've been helping local mums in their homes for the past four years to achieve the peace of mind that comes with living in a calm, uncluttered environment.  In order to continue to support my clients while maintaining social distancing I'm now offering virtual sessions via Zoom


Victoria with Marie Kondo

Victoria Nicholson
My Wardrobe Zen
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